A Childhood Scene of Misery near Amery

Painting by Amery native Emelie Lovelace.

When I looked around the living room, I saw the plants had frozen and lay there, an ugly, limpy brown. The wood fire roared in the little, decrepit stove but threw off little heat. Phoebe Munson huddled near it in her winter jacket.

Saturday morning, the day before Christmas, and we were delivering eggs to the Munsons, a weekly ritual.

We had a tough time starting our ’53 Chevy panel truck even though dad had taken the battery in overnight. He strapped it in and the engine turned over slowly, growling reluctantly. Arctic hats and thick gloves felt just right. We dressed in layers, puffing out our words in steamy breath as he drove to the Munsons.

We drive to the Munsons

“About 20 below,” Dad said. The winds from the direction of Gorres’ farm to the north pushed the panel truck back and forth.

The Munsons lived two miles from us east of Amery. Viktor, a wounded WW II vet, tried eking a living from his 40 acre farm and did handyman work where and when he could.

Smoke poured from their simple brick chimney, and Gustavus their Husky greeted us not with a bark but with intense wagging. A straw-filled doghouse protected him, and in no time furry Gus settled back into it.

We go in

Dad knocked, yelled in as he slowly opened the door.

We heard: “Come on in, we’re in the living room.” Viktor’s Swedish accent always made me smile.

We walked through a cool kitchen, and we saw the water wasn’t running because of frozen pipes. Dishes piled high on a dirty sink and a table full of plates and empty boxes bothered me. Mom’s housekeeping never reached this point.

Walking into the living room, I noticed not only the dead plants, but the entire area looked messy and crowded. Their couch pulled out to a double bed, unmade, and close by a table stood with the remains of their breakfast. A blaring TV added to the confusion, and I noticed doors to other rooms and the stairway were closed.

Dad made small talk as I tried stared around the room. Phoebe appeared warm enough by that wood stove, and August remained mostly under a blanket. They both seemed cheerful, but I figured it was a front. They also didn’t get many visitors so they enjoyed us, and Dad’s easygoing manner made anyone comfortable.

Dad set the eggs down, told them it was their Christmas present. They insisted on paying him the 70 cents, but he refused. “Here’s a plate of cookies from Emma, too. I’ll get the plate next weekend.” He set it next to the breakfast dishes.

The wind sneaked in through the leaky windows, I could tell because the curtains moved. Their barebones Christmas tree also moved a little in the breeze from the windows. What misery they must put up with in these days of bitter, relentless cold, with not end in sight.


Saying good-bye, I was glad to get out of there.

Dad walked ahead of me, wiping his eyes. Never had I ever seen him cry, but I didn’t say anything to him as we crawled back into the truck.

On the way home, I wondered how I’d describe this to Mom.



5 Replies to “A Childhood Scene of Misery near Amery”

  1. Joanne Sorenson says: Reply

    I enjoyed the “misery” story….made me sad – reminded me of a similar story I heard from a friend whose father was a grocer…and would bring some supplies to families, and find some difficult conditions. Sometimes he put off being paid for quite a while. Thanks:)….. how did you find the pictures to fit so well??

    1. Hi Joanne, thanks for writing. The painting is done by a lady I just heard about and “discovered” in Amery, a former teacher and water color artist. Some of her work is far out, but the house scenes in the country trigger vivid memories for me. The dog picture I found on doghouse images, the grass scene was public domain somewhere.

  2. This story brought my own memories vividly to mind. There were no pipes to freeze in our farm house near Pulaski. We children sometimes entertained ourselves in winter by bundling up and going into the room at the front of the house to use the frosted far wall as our blackboard. We would use unsharpened pencils to write and draw in the frost. I don’t know where our father got the water to bring in to the house before my brother got a job at the cheese factory. My brother would bring the factory milk truck filled with warm water and he and my father would fill the tubs. Enough water was always available to heat on the wood burning stove for Mother to prepare simple meals, wash the dishes and allow us to wash up good for go-to-meetin’ on Sunday. There was no need to be uncomfortable with the state of our house if company showed up unexpectedly; chairs near the wood stove were conducive to good conversation. We were taught ‘a place for everything and everything in it’s place’.

    1. Great story and memories from childhood, Cari. I’m going to have to steal that and use it some time in the future. I’ve got a feeling Greg can recall names better than me. Interesting how you tell about chairs around the woodstove, and you can imagine in below zero weather with a wind ouotside, by the wood burner would be exactly the spot to me. Thanks, Cari.

  3. Cari Lindsley says: Reply

    No stealing, your mother would be appalled. Here—a gift. Thanks

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